The Mirror of Relationship
The Mirror of Relationship video was produced by Julien Andrieu Franceschetti – a friend of The Immeasurable.
“I think we are apt to forget that our society, the culture in which we live, which has conditioned us, is the result of human endeavor, conflict, human misery, and suffering. Each one of us is that culture; the community is each one of us – we are not separate from it. To feel this, not as an intellectual idea or a concept, but to actually feel the reality of this, one has to go into the question of what is relationship; because our life, our existence, is based on relationship. Life is a movement in relationship. If we do not understand what is implied in relationship, we inevitably not only isolate ourselves, but create a society in which human beings are divided, not only nationally, religiously, but also in themselves and therefore they project what they are into the outer world.
I do not know if you have gone into this question deeply for yourself, to find out if one can live with another in total harmony, in complete accord, so that there is no barrier, no division, but a feeling of complete unity. Because relationship means to be related – not in action, not in some project, not in an ideology – but to be totally united in the sense that the division, the fragmentation between individuals, between two human beings, does not exist at all at any level.”
J. Krishnamurti
2nd Public Talk in New York, 1971
From The Awakening of Intelligence book
I just wait what you have to offer different from anybody else. Henk
As I watched this video and listened to the words of wisdom by J. Krishnamurti, a feeling of knowing and love filled my whole being and soul. There exists within each one of us memories of oneness or unity, that is, that was and will always be. He is so right as he points to areas within ourselves to watch as it reflects back to us the areas that conditioned us, causing us conflict, human misery, and suffering. Plainly see that we are the cause of all we say we do not want and we truly need to take responsibility in order for this to change. Thank you.
Very well done video!… the images and sound quality highlights the voice of Krishnamurti, without diminishing it. It is crystal clear and strong enough to reach where it has to for each individual. Please, keep on making them. Thank you.
If we say yes, as if we say no, that has no true value. Because, by saying yes, we are generating the no. And that dynamic, generates division, conflict.
So, one does not say that he can live, or not, with another person in total harmony, in complete agreement, so that there is no barrier, no division, but a feeling of complete unity. If not, we move with the fact of the relationship. Where we see ourselves first hand, in a factual way, what is that relationship with a person. And, then, what you discover will be yours and nobody will be able to snatch it from you. It will be a light for yourself and for others.
The problem of life, are the conclusions, which become ideas, theories, fanaticism, fundamentalism, fundamentalism. And it makes us warriors. For a cause, from which we are willing to kill and to be killed. That is the paradigm of our lives.
Thats what love is for but in the world there is billions and billions of humens beings . How many of those have the same mentality and are ready for loving ?